What makes a woman so captivating?
Hint: It’s not more skin.
Girls, listen.
Wanna know what men love the most about you?
Do you want to know what makes you irresistible?
It’s this:
PUT IT BACK ON!!
YES THATS IT.
It’s not more skin!
Sheesh.
There is something about you that is infinitely more magnetic than your appearance.
But you’ve kept it buried within.
What is it?
Your femininity.
Unlocking it will repel boys who just want to play:
and will attract real masculine men who desire your good:
This is what happens when you fully embrace your femininity.
Yeah but get off, you’re choking him…
The influence of femininity is one of the most powerful forces ever documented.
Entire civilizations were shaped by it.
Without women around, men would be perfectly comfortable living in shacks, eating rotten potatoes.
Proof?
Here’s man before woman was invented:
Man, after woman appeared:
My guy doesn’t even know what hit him.
Congrats! 🥳 Your wife is pregnant, Frank.
Men hunted lions, built cities, and died the most gruesome deaths, all for women.
Women’s influence is so powerful that Ven. Fulton Sheen (who’s about to be beatified) said:
A truly feminine woman does not just attract a man. She calls him upward. She makes him want to become worthy of her, and in consequence, to desire holiness.
Women, we need you.
We need you back in the churches, not on the screens.
Because a woman can be visibly feminine, in her appearance, her mannerisms, her presence, yet still leave a man cold if her femininity is suppressed, wounded, or absent.
And a woman whose femininity is fully alive, is captivating even if she does not look ‘hot’.
So be courageous and stop bending to society’s expectations.
Because here’s what real men want.
They do not want perfect appearance, and definitely not immodest wear.
Beneath the surface of your appearance, beneath even personality; in a world of body-rejecting, fertility-suppressing, motherhood-mocking, beauty-dismantling, softness-shaming, sensuality-commodifying, immodesty-celebrating, man-distrusting, marriage-mocking, family-dissolving, child-avoiding, abortion-normalizing, hormone-disrupting, self-medicating, identity-erasing, perpetually-unsatisfied boss-babing, and chronically-online, deeply-lonely feminism; he is asking himself one quiet question:
Does she still know who she is?
Does she embrace her femaleness?
Or has she been talked out of it?
This is what deepens attraction and takes your relationship from a shallow encounter to sustained admiration.
Yes, how?
How do you embrace your femininity?
Humans are wired for imitation. Which is why who you choose to imitate matters more than almost any other decision you make in life.
That is why Paul says, “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 11:1)
So to find what femininity looks like, and to imitate it, you need to find a perfect model.
But what woman is perfect?
Not your mom, no. Not even nuns!
True femininity at its full perfection is….
Mary.
This woman is the Mother of God, the most perfect woman who ever lives, and your model for who you are as a woman.
Only she can bring you back to your ‘true self’.
Mary’s fiat, "Let it be done to me according to your word" (Luke 1:38) is the freest sentence ever spoken by a human being, let alone by a woman. This radical total surrender to God is what makes her whole.
Her fiat freed her to stand at the foot of the cross (John 19:25) when eleven of the twelve apostles had ran away.
And she stood loyally at the side of the Man from whose rib she was formed.
That is femininity.
A self so whole, so healed, so fully given to God that when a good man encounters it he stops and wonders whether he is worthy of her.
THIS is what makes you irresistibly captivating.
Baa,
Stay Holy 🐑
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